Pride and Prejudice, a love story that has lasted nearly two centuries. First published in 1813, it has survived and thrived through many generations. From it's first lines to it's closing words Pride and Prejudice has captivated the romantic in all of us. Many movie adaptations have tried to do it justice. My personal favorite is the 2005 directed by Joe Wright. Keira Knightly plays Elizabeth Bennet in a way very different from the other movies that I have seen. Unwilling to be bullied in to marriage, Lizzie does not see herself being married any time soon. But enter Mr. Darcy, played by Matthew Mcfadyen. Darcy struggles against his fascination and growing love of Elizabeth from the moment he lays eyes on her. I know that it sounds really corny and cheese, but Matthew Mcfadyen does such a wonderful job of character development with Darcy that you can follow him as he falls in love with her.
This story is one of my absolute favorites! It is so beautiful and happy. The characters are real. They aren't perfect. They all have flaws. Elizabeth judges, jumps to conclusions and has an awful mother. Darcy is socially inept, prideful and has a disgruntled 'friend' out to get him.
But they both have qualities that we should mimic also. One of those is Loyalty.
Both characters show Loyalty to those they cared about. Elizabeth to her sister and Darcy to Bingley.
When Elizabeth finds out that it was Darcy who took Mr. Bingley away from Jane, Lizzie's sister, she is loyal to her sister. I'm not sure she would have said 'yes' to Darcy when he asked for her hand, but she wouldn't have lashed out if it hadn't have been him. After she did, I think, is when she realizes that she loves him.
Darcy also shows loyalty to his closest friend, Charles Bingley. when he saw that Jane was not showing as much attachment to him as Bingley was to her, Darcy thought it best to separate them, to protect his friend. And Elizabeth's rejection helped to make things right in the end :)
Respect. Both Darcy and Elizabeth respected themselves and others. Elizabeth did not throw herself to men, even if she liked him. Darcy did not throw himself at Elizabeth either. He made himself known to her, in his own way praised her and took her advice when she gave it, even if it did cause him discomfort. In all this he was not doing it to point out that was following what she had said, only doing it because he loved her. After he made his affection known and she turned him down, he respect her wishes and didn't talk about his affections, but he did want to discuss the two charges against him, which he cleared.
They both realized and took responsibility for their mistakes. Lizzie when she judged her best friend Charlotte and when she misjudged Darcy. Mr. Darcy for taking away Bingley and he even made right Wickham's blunder.
Protective. Both Darcy and Elizabeth are protective of those they love. Elizabeth over Jane and Darcy over Elizabeth, Bingley, and his sister. And this is not a bad thing! It's a good thing that Darcy and Lizzie are protective, it's a way they show their love.
So lets recap: Loyal, Respectful, Owning up to their mistakes, and Protective. Now these are not all their qualities, but if you are looking for a Darcy or a Lizzie of your own, make sure that a Love of God is the Number 1 thing on their agenda. If they don't love the Lord, then they are not worth your love.
If you haven't seen the movie or read the book I won't ruin the ending for you, but you must do so.
Forever yours
~ The Young Dreamer